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Post by darrensgirl on Mar 30, 2007 18:05:57 GMT -5
I guess i have to see the guy on monday, anyway his name is Dr. Chris Cooper. Has anyone heard of him before? The childrens lawyer also wants a 3 month adjournment to get this finished and I don't want my kids sitting in care any longer than they have to. The courts were fine with it getting completed with the children home before.
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Post by rtmq on Mar 30, 2007 21:35:28 GMT -5
darrensgirl:
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> I guess i have to see the guy on monday, anyway his name > is Dr. Chris Cooper. Has anyone heard of him before?
Have you been referred for a parenting capacity assessment? Who selected the doctor? Children's Aid knows of a number of doctors who always write reports in their favor -- they are known as "psych-whores". All parents fail, except those who want to adopt.
One parent fooled the psych-whore by applying for an assessment before CAS got involved, saying their family wanted to adopt. Later CAS was flabbergasted to see the target of their baby-stealing with a good report. In your case, it seems too late for this trick. But if there is any way you can shift to a doctor NOT suggested by CAS, you should do so.
Robert T McQuaid Mattawa Ontario
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Post by darrensgirl on Mar 31, 2007 8:17:32 GMT -5
Im not sure if that dan dalton would see me here in kingston and i don't have a way to travel, I had them done before years ago against cas. The worker says she just wants to see if they have changed their opinion as the last one was good and I got to keep my kids.
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Post by MommaBear on Mar 31, 2007 9:59:01 GMT -5
you are already had one done? then they have one end of story..has the judge order this? if not I would go in front of a judge and argue this point as I don't think a reasonable judge would permit this as you had one done not long ago, CAS is fishing DO NOT LET THEM , Dan Dalton has office through Ontario they usually go to your home to do the assessment. We cannot stress this enough do not take one from their assessors.
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Post by MConn on Mar 31, 2007 12:37:39 GMT -5
As momma bear said if you had one not long ago it is still good and the judge should accept it they tried that one one me because they could not find one that could make up a story against me because I have already been to them before working to find a solution to our children's problems while the school was pushing for our children to be on drugs. Brantford CAS has a file on us which is large and no truth to it I would love for someone to go over it and find any evidence that makes one of their affidavits true. I was never really home and I messed a lot of time with the children trying to make a better life for them but because of these CAS people and their fiction writers we have ended up back right where we started poor but we are working our way back and writing the true story of our lives to show how this CAS group did not do any proper investigations and ruin a family that was doing everything that was possible to raise there children in a very good environment.
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Post by smartlady23 on May 1, 2007 21:51:33 GMT -5
hey there cas tried asking for me and my hubby to do one of those parenting capacity assessments and at first we were like no way not without court order but then we were gonna gree to it because we wanna life to be easier. But onw that they have extended my access with our son they have put that all on hold so we'll see what happens
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Post by darrensgirl on May 2, 2007 8:56:33 GMT -5
Well an update on this, Dr. Cooper came to the house, he had read the court papers and wanted to see what the CAS was complaining about, which was mainly a so called laundry basket at the top of the stairs. He didn't see anything wrong with that, and guess what the place where the kids were supposed to go which is the extended family, they have like 6 couches in their kitchen another 5 in the living room, laundry basket at the top of the stairs, there is hardly any room to move in that place, yet the worker says they will be approved, funny as their house is 10 times more cluttered than mine is and that is OK? I know why she approved them, they own their own house, they are older, they have their own business, etc, own a car the whole works, I rent, hubby works but doesn't make enough so we get a top up from OW, don't have a car.
Oh yeah the worker change didn't happen either, said its in the best interests of the children to keep her ( most likely so she can keep up with her ultimate plan) there isn't a person who likes her.
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Post by miyaxanagel on May 2, 2007 13:10:40 GMT -5
You are better off with a Private Doctor than a CAS Doctor. I have had that and I got screwed and when I got a private doctor that disagreed with CAS Psch. Doctor. CAS was pissed off when I went behind their backs and got private doctors on this and DISAGREED WITH THEM. Also you are also better off protected with a Lawyer. Do you have a Lawyer? But not all Lawyers always defend Families. I know everyone say DO NOT DO ANYTHING WITH CAS AND MAKE A DEAL. but that would be hard when the Kids are in their Custody, not in yours. It is like making a deal with the devil. That's exactly what it is.
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Post by darrensgirl on May 2, 2007 16:30:38 GMT -5
yeah i have a lawyer hes pretty good, he uses exactly what i give him for the courts and does not alter it.
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Post by darrensgirl on May 2, 2007 16:31:55 GMT -5
Forgot to mention no way can I afford a private one and i don't know of any in kingston
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Post by leighsha on Jul 16, 2012 13:50:10 GMT -5
I am looking for a psychologist in the sarnia area who does parental capacity assessments. A friend needs one done. If you know of anyone please let me know
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