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Post by litigator on May 23, 2007 8:44:27 GMT -5
If you've been wrongly accused of child abuse: Recognize you're in for the fight of your life. Anticipate the worst is yet to come. Yet you must stay cool, calm and collective. Create a timeline or chronology as you perceive the events and circumstances leading up to the accusation(s). Study the groundbreaking work on children's suggestibilities and cognition by one of the foremost researchers in the world - Dr. Stephen Ceci, author of Jeopardy in the Courtroom. Become familiar with Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS), Sexual Allegations in Divorce (SAID) and Recovered Memory Therapy (RMT) aka False Memory Syndrome (FMS). Attempt to electronically record all interviews with the alleged child victim. File an immediate request for production of documents with Police and the CAS involved. Attempt to suppress all further therapies with the alleged child victim. If possible, Retain your own mental health expert to evaluate the child's competency as a witness and credibility. Take your child to an expert pediatrician, if necessary, to refute alleged medical findings as "consistent with sexual abuse." Get all supporting affidavits "typed up." and filed with the court promptly, these include affidavits from your doctor, your family, your friends, anyone who will support your denial of the allegations. Secure at least supervised visits with alleged child victim, if it's a child you live with. Record every conversation with social workers, either in person or by phone, so they cannot twist your words or report that you said something that you did not say, such as confess to your guilt. Click on a leading Family Rights Support Group for help - www.canadacourtwatch.com, www.sarniassmokinggun.com/What Not to Do If You Have Been AccusedDO NOT AGREE TO UNDERGO any psycho-sexual tests to prove your innocence such as the Polygraph or penile Plethysmography otherwise known as Phallometric Testing. Do not Plea bargain, plead nolo contendre, no contest or accept any form of deal where you are noted on record as guilty Do not be afraid to question your attorney or his competence. Do not Retain a lawyer or psychologist without first perusing their Curriculum Vitae (CV). Do not Admit to a crime that you did not commit. Do not try to reconcile a relationship with a SAID accuser. Do not antagonize CAS, guardians-ad-litem, adversarial counsel or the psychologists in your case. Never waive your Constitutional Rights, including the right to a speedy trial. Do not talk to social workers or anyone else about your case unless your attorney okays it if you have one and is preferably present. Your words, even to friends, can be turned against you in court. Do not Lose your love for your child. Remember, it's not the child's fault! AND MOST IMPORTANT DO NOT Give up! Your life and that of your child's depends upon your persevering.
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Post by Whistleblower on May 23, 2007 9:58:23 GMT -5
I have a question:
It states above:
Do not retain a Lawyer or Psch pursuing Circulum Viate (CV)
What does this mean?
Also their use of Dolls on Children should not be admissable in Court because it is misleading the children such as false memory. Many people saying that it is giving the Children confusing messages when it comes to automated dolls. Ie: They might have played with Barbie Dolls previous day. And the Barbie Dolls might have been naked when they played with them, thinking it is normal but CAS and Psch. Doctors are giving them false memory insutuating that something sexual abuse did in face occured but wasn't.
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Post by litigator on May 23, 2007 10:13:55 GMT -5
Curiculum Vitae is a formal resume of sorts listing the individuals education, professional qualifications and revelvant work experience and any awards they may have received.
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Post by td on May 23, 2007 10:26:39 GMT -5
to litigator: its ?, why you would say dont give up!, last night i had a (what i thought was a family freind) tell me i should just give up! then two months ago,theysaid" you shouldnt be trying to get your life going up here!,you should sell your truck, and go down south and get a job and get rid of all the stress" i ask, what person would counsel another on giving up on there child? ?? then theres the fact that she is prema facia evidence to witness tampering,evidence tampering,obstruction of justice,counselling a crime,atttempt to intrap,conspiracy to wrong full and mallicious prosecution!
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Post by fixchildrensaid on May 25, 2007 16:34:27 GMT -5
For litigator:
I have not been accused of abusing my children. CAS has been smart enough to not be that direct about their allegations.
However, what they have done is make suggestions that I may be a threat to my one daughter. For example, CAS claims that my daughter's counselor informed them that she feels that my daughter and I have "boundary issues". In the next sentence they stated that they feel that my daughter is "someone who has been sexually interfered with".
Anybody who has read the paragraph recognises that the implication is that they are trying to make me out to be a threat to my daughter, but like I said, they won't come right out and make the allegation.
When I called up my daughter's counselor to ask if she did in fact make those statements, the counselor admitted that the worker took her statements out of context and left out other parts. I sent her a letter asking her to clarify that in writing, since these statements (and others) were used in an affidavit.
The counselor has refused to put anything in writing, claiming that she didn't want to get involved in the court process. I politely reminded her that CAS involved her by putting those claims in the affidavit, not me. I also explained that, since she admitted to me that those allegations were not accurate, it was her duty to clear them up. She still refused. Even her boss, a child psychiatrist has refused to do anything about it.
Do you (or anybody else) have any suggestions on what to do?
Thanks.
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Post by Whistleblower on May 25, 2007 17:49:00 GMT -5
If you still have a Court Proceeding, you still have the right to cross examine witnesses, even this Counsellor and Psch. Doctor on the Stand. They will be under oath to tell the truth. This way it will go on Court Record.
If that was me, I would subpoena this Counsellor and child psch. to the stand and cross examine them.
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Post by MConn on May 25, 2007 19:34:17 GMT -5
When my wife and I lived in Paris ON. our son was seeing a councilor in school because of his anger problems he was beat up by 3 students in school so when he went to see his councilor in school the councilor notice the bruises on him she ask what happened to you. So not to be thrown out of school again for fighting he told the councilor that I hit him. I was just coming up to the drive way at our home there was a police car in the driveway I though he must have hurt someone in the house because he has pulled a knife on my wife once and threatened my wife several times has hurt our daughters in one of his rages but to my surprise they said that I was beating our son up I had no idea what they were talking about then this female worker started screaming at me like a banshee I have never seen a grown woman acting like a spoiled rotten little kid that could not get her way then started threatening us of taking our children and having the officer put me in jail for the assault on our son which I had no idea of what she was talking about. Then when the CAS left the officer and I were talking and I was trying to find out what this was all about the officer said to me that he was going to keep this on record and if this woman threatens you again you can lay charges he said he could not believe this was a woman so we have recovered this record of this officer that was there and we are going to put it in our book so so far nothing that the CAS here in Brantford that we have been involved with have done no proper investigations and their affidavits is nothing but garbage
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Post by Whistleblower on May 25, 2007 20:56:19 GMT -5
McConn:
Oh believe me. I know what you are talking about. I have that same kind of Worker, I can't believe that acted like a 4 years old. She stomps her feet, pen in her right hand, clenched, note pad in her left arm...demanding to talk to me, I said, please obtain an interpreter...3 times...she would not hear of it...I pointed the note on my door: please obtain an interpreter because this person is deaf. She stomped her feet like a 4 years old maniac...stomped all the way with her nose air fuming out, proceeded to her car, called the cops on her cell phone to come to my house. Police came to my house and I explained to the cops that I needed an interpreter. She was standing like a mad woman. The police can see what she was like, then he explained to her that I could not understand and all that, he tries to write on his legal pad, explaining about stuff. Then he talked to the Worker for a bit, then she said with a grudge "fine, that's all for now". She knows we have to set up another meeting to set up with an interpreter. Then they left.
I could not believe that she would act like that in a professional manner, but really childish. I wonder if her supervisor knows about that. I was going to report her to her supervisor, but you know how it goes trying to debate with a 4 years old. LOL SHE ALWAYS GETS HER WAY. ya know? LOL Not worth pursuing with a Child. She is not worth of my time anyways.
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Post by td on May 25, 2007 20:58:56 GMT -5
take the workers affidavit, noterize each false statement, gather the proof and lay the charge of perjury,criminal harrassement, find out if she is in deed a s.w., and forward the endictment once it is filed!
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Post by mac on May 25, 2007 21:39:44 GMT -5
That was 10 years ago TD if I had known now back then but the surprise is this woman is now a supervisor at the Brantford CAS and she has not changed. Whistleblower it is scary that these type of people oversee our children when they cannot keep themselves in check and find out the truth instead of going off and making up affidavits up that have no truth to it and destroying families that are trying to help their children instead of helping like they are suppose to. They are always in a hurry to blame the parent instead of working with them.
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Post by td on May 25, 2007 23:44:15 GMT -5
well, mconn, i dont know about civil but, as far as criminal any crimes that she may have commited back then the criminal statues of limitation are very well/probably over/expired, but there is a way around that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by MConn on May 26, 2007 8:15:24 GMT -5
What we are doing is putting a book together and maybe a website of how the Brantford CAS had lied to us for 16 years put our family members in danger living in fear from a violent member of the family then finally we had no choice but have the child removed, the threats nearly killing one of our children one was sexually assaulted by a worker then physically assaulted in care the injuries that family members have received ruining programs to help our children and to show that they did nothing absolutely nothing to help our family but to tare it apart and to nearly bankrupt us over the years of their lies. It has took us years to accumulate all the information from all the councilors, doctors, Police services, teachers and program coordinators that show the CAS has put our family into dangerous situations.
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Post by scarred on Jul 23, 2007 9:33:37 GMT -5
I was falsely accused of abuse in '03. I was play wrestling with my then 6 yr old step son. Two days later I was called at work by my ex to come to the police station for questioning. My step son told a school councellor that I had picked him up by his neck, choked him and threw him on the bed. He had two tiny bruises on his neck that were from me, but they did not happen because I choked him.They were from our play wrestling match. One bruise was only two cm. by one cm. The other was only slightly larger. I was playing with both of my older sons. The eldest bruises very easily.He told me 2-3 months later that he was sorry that he lied and that he didn't know that they would take him( and my other 4 children )out of the house. My other son was mad at him and told him to tell the social worker that I did not choke him.In his own words he said to him" Br****n, I was there Dad never choked you and you know it." I believe that he told the school councellor that I choked him because he was mad at his biological father for breaking another promise, and I was the one who had to explain it to him. For over half a year my ex supported me and told CAS that I was never -ever abusive with her or any of the children. No charges were ever laid, and I've tried since then to obtain the police records, but to no avail. After six months of meeting with CAS workers my ex was convinced by the worker to tell the Women's Emergency shelter that I was verbally abusive with her and that if she went to the shelter she would have an easier time getting 'her' children back. I found out several weeks ago that the CAS' lawyer is on the board of directors for the Shelter. It's disturbing that the society is so quick to listen to a child when an apprehension takes place , but will not listen to them otherwise and claims that they are too young to know what's good for them.......HUH???Aren't they supposed to be acting in the children's best interest, aren't they supposed to listen to a child when they say they want to live with thier Daddy.?
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Post by fixchildrensaid on Jul 23, 2007 15:26:49 GMT -5
Scarred,
Sorry to hear about what happened.
I managed to get all Police records related to every incident of my ex-wife calling the police on me (53 times). It was only then that the Police were forced to start "realising" who the problem was.
If you would like some help in obtaining those Police records, I may be able to give you some advice.
Email me at fixchildrensaid at gmail.com
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Post by scarred on Jul 23, 2007 18:47:13 GMT -5
I was trying to find your address but could not. Any and all help is much appreciated.I'll keep trying though,Thanks
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